What is Love? Love is Falling!! Negative Definition of Love!
Posted on 2/13/2009
Terminological wise, and in case of terms commonly used, it is obvious and straightforward, when someone loves another we say he/she Fell in Love with someone, he/she would say I am Falling in Love with you! on the other hand, we never say he/she Rose in Love with someone, neither he/she would say I am Rising in Love with you. so the phrase is to fall in love, NOT to rise in love!
Practical wise, it is a bit more complicated but can be explained as follows: Love is giving the authority of hurting your heart to someone who you trust will never do it!! shocking ha?! well, love is a state of vulnerability, or weakness, resulting of giving a full control over you and your heart to someone else, it is like giving your heart's remote control to someone who you trust will never switch channels! this feeling might be acceptable, good, warm, passionate and even to die for, as we human beings like and tend to live as couples, as a natural valid behavior, but what if that one we trusted misused the authority we provided, what if he/she switched channels! [back for terms, we use the phrase: falling into a trap, and a trap is commonly set up for you by someone you trusted!! so logically Love could be a Trap, LOL]
Falling in a Hole .. That lucky one you fell in love with and trusted might stay there in your love hole, so that hole would be your heaven, and it might last for ever, but what if one left that hole up, rose and passed the road? why to put your self under such a risk?
On the negative side, the process is Falling not Rising, so if you scratch your brain and think it over then you might never accept to fall in love with someone!
On the positive side, why do we usually accept such a risk? what excuse you might think of to explain your acceptance to fall? I guess, maybe we do accept such risks just to be able to live a moment of happiness, though love is a risk but it's almost our most important desire and need because we human beings are weak and emotional, we are seeking a moment of happiness regardless its after effects!
Practical wise, it is a bit more complicated but can be explained as follows: Love is giving the authority of hurting your heart to someone who you trust will never do it!! shocking ha?! well, love is a state of vulnerability, or weakness, resulting of giving a full control over you and your heart to someone else, it is like giving your heart's remote control to someone who you trust will never switch channels! this feeling might be acceptable, good, warm, passionate and even to die for, as we human beings like and tend to live as couples, as a natural valid behavior, but what if that one we trusted misused the authority we provided, what if he/she switched channels! [back for terms, we use the phrase: falling into a trap, and a trap is commonly set up for you by someone you trusted!! so logically Love could be a Trap, LOL]
Falling in a Hole .. That lucky one you fell in love with and trusted might stay there in your love hole, so that hole would be your heaven, and it might last for ever, but what if one left that hole up, rose and passed the road? why to put your self under such a risk?
On the negative side, the process is Falling not Rising, so if you scratch your brain and think it over then you might never accept to fall in love with someone!
On the positive side, why do we usually accept such a risk? what excuse you might think of to explain your acceptance to fall? I guess, maybe we do accept such risks just to be able to live a moment of happiness, though love is a risk but it's almost our most important desire and need because we human beings are weak and emotional, we are seeking a moment of happiness regardless its after effects!
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9 Response to "What is Love? Love is Falling!! Negative Definition of Love!"
3anjad innak salti ya Rani hehehehehe..... Only jordanians look at love from that perspective and the problem is we cant control it. Its encoded in the Jordanian Genome ;p. Although im trying as much as i can to fight it.
Thats a curse man and we have to deal with it :) ...
I like the analogy...
About photo: He's a smart man LOL. If they were to collide or fall, he would be fine, she would be maf3ooseh hahahaah
i have to admit that i adore your way of thinking .. great points never thought about ...
3njad how nice to say "rose in love with someone" , it tastes wayyyyyy better ...
but from where did u bring that love definition??
anyways i wish a great love journey in which u rise in but never fall :D
I guess I somehow agree to the fact that when you love you are giving your partner the right to hurt you. I agree with your rationale too. Probably the reason why its called falling in love because of the risk. When you fall, you do not know whether you will be landing on your feet or heading for a crash. Just like love, you will never be certain how it ends.
the way you think is actually amazing, it really is im inspired, i really enjoyed reading your post. beacuse i can realte with somthing that happened today :(
He's just using her as a crash mate surely?!?
yes it is true that falling in love is a risk, that is why we should be careful to fall for the right person or else our lives will be ruined.
Nice they looks like they are travelling pretty fast, need to see the next frame... :)
You are only viewing the terminologie used in society to descibe "falling" in love. You must look at love as a social enigma created to beautify and romanticise the basic animalistic male sexual desires.
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